After dinner as we were walking and talking, I said something playful and she gently hit my arm as she responded. To this day she said it meant nothing, but at the moment it meant everything to me. She touched me, which according to the latest in human sexuality, meant she liked me so I better touch her back. It took about five minutes but I finally found my opportunity to gently make physical contact and the rest is history.
Jenny is now rolling her eyes. Had we not gotten married, that touch would have meant very little. Because we got married I can still tell you exactly where we were the moment she touched my arm. But people stay in love in very predictable ways. See: Four Rights of Marriage. The mystery of what makes us fall in love is fascinating, but staying in love is not mysterious.
It is predictable, universal, and completely under our control. It sounds much cooler to talk about the mysteries of love. It might begin as a mystery, but it continues in the mundane. What feels overwhelming when it comes to us is actually completely in our control as we choose whether or not we will live out our vows for a lifetime.
The unconscious touch of a hand on a first date must become the very conscious touch of a hand in every day of marriage. There could be a lot of things that make you share the same frequency, I do not think it necessary needs to be your consciousness. Hi Lynne, Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on mystery 3.
And usually, couples unite because many things are in the same frequency. Glad you enjoyed the post.
Your email address will not be published. Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I always do. That have made me day dream. Or simply wonder. Why is love like this? Why is love like that? You get the point. Being Natural brings out the best in you thus making your chances of falling in Love better. And definitely when you are being natural, you will be totally submerged in your acts and so you won't even realize when exactly you fell in love.
Being Natural is of course not easy but neither is falling in Love. If you be your natural self, some people may dislike you for your being so but but some may even like you for being. The fact that you pose as your natural self is a proof in itself that you have confidence in yourself. It also clearly indicates to your 'to-be' partner that you would happily adjust to her inadequacies and still be happy being with her. So you see, being natural instills a sense of security in your 'to-be' partner.
Still, love remains a mystery. If you hear bells, get your ears checked. Love is a big mystery and puzzles often. I mean what is that which makes you fall in love?
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